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Deletions happen when the speaker leaves something out. When a person is being too vague or manipulative, deletion may be the culprit. If someone …

In any type of coaching or therapy, momentum is very important. By momentum, we mean that a productive process is taking place at the correct tempo. …

We all have a hard time making a real life-altering decision. A recent client came in and asked me to decide for him: “Should I stay in college even …

Source: Richard Bandler Select and clarify a limiting decision. Develop and anchor a positive decision. Associate into the limiting decision and …

Source: Richard Bandler & John Grinder By resolving the meta-model violation known as nominalization, you can get much more control over your mind and …

Source: Maralee Platt Choose a memory that troubles you sometimes. Explore the sub-modalities you notice in the memory. Use a frame as a symbol of the …

Source: Judith DeLosier, based on the SCORE pattern by Robert Dilts and Todd Epstein Select a problem. Create your four spaces. Find a movement …

Source: Robert A, Yourell Select the situation, and fully express your thoughts about it. Repeat the thoughts with better organization and priority. …

With this pattern, we can begin to alleviate the tightness of fight, flight, and freeze. Step 1: Identify a situation that elicits a strong emotional …

The last things you want to be reflected in your body language with a client are rejection, excessive distance, or the quality of pushing something …