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Fear of rejection is a deeply ingrained emotional response that frequently stems from accumulated memories of physical and emotional pain throughout one’s life, beginning in childhood.
These experiences serve as the foundation for a survival mechanism that can give rise to irrational fears that persist in daily life.
Childhood rejection can occur in a variety of relationships, including those with parents, teachers, siblings, relatives, and friends, and it can leave long-lasting imprints on the psyche.
Whether intentional or unintentional, these rejections have the power to shape adult relationships and contribute to self-rejection.
When confronted with situations that resemble the past, the impact of these memories can trigger potentially catastrophic defensive reactions, creating a sense of vulnerability and anxiety.
The fear of rejection is not coincidental, but rather the result of these experiences being absorbed and assembled, which can influence one’s perceptions, thoughts, and behaviors in present-day interactions.
Understanding the underlying causes of this fear as a therapist can provide valuable insights into navigating and healing from rejection wounds, fostering self-acceptance, and cultivating healthier relationships.
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